Are you In an Abusive Relationship with…Yourself?
In this post I want to talk about self-compassion, reasons for low self-esteem, and to give you some ideas for kicking the nasty habit of negative self-talk.
Three Sources of Communication Break-Down in Caregiving (and Three Antidotes)
Breakdowns in communication are among the top reasons my caregiver/care partner clients have listed when I’ve asked them what motivated them to seek individual counseling with me. In this post, I’ve tried to distill many of the communication issues clients have shared with me into a few, digestible categories. And, even better, I’ve tried to offer strategies for alleviating these communication roadblocks all together.
The Empty Well: Compassion Fatigue and Burnout in Caregiving
If you have been a caregiver (care partner) for any length of time, you have probably either experienced or know someone who has experienced compassion fatigue and/or burnout.
How to Support Someone Who is Grieving
You are feeling helpless in the face of the loss your loved one is experiencing. You want to say or do the “right” thing and even more, you want to avoid saying or doing the wrong thing.
8 Things You Can Do to Cope When Living Alone During the Pandemic
If you already lived alone before this global pandemic, you’re probably used to being on your own during the week. But all day? Everyday?? Even the weekend???
Lost at Sea: Grief and Break-Ups
The end of a significant relationship, whether due to divorce or a break-up, is among the top life events that bring clients to my office.
Your first holiday without a loved one: four ways to cope
In many ways, even when we have company in our grief, we really do grieve alone. That’s because our relationship with the one(s) we have lost is unique.
Building Social Supports…Outside of Social Media
There’s something about in-person human connection that we need as people. Yes, there’s even a lot of science behind this idea.
What is Mindfulness and Can It Really Change Your Brain?
If you’re like me, when I first started hearing about Mindfulness, I thought it was basically the same thing as meditation. And to be honest, I always wanted to be good at meditation, but I just couldn’t seem to get past the discomfort and constant mind-wandering that meditation brought up for me.